Monday, December 17, 2012

How do you grow?

Another one from October:

For school, Chinipie had picked out a dress for herself, which she had outgrown. I avoid removing such dresses from her closet, cause sugar will grow into them and my past experience has been that if I take those dresses away, I completely forget about them until sugar has outgrown them too. And they are, usually in a good condition to be worn as a hand-me-down. Now, on this particular day, Chinipie had picked one of her favorites from late spring/early summer. When I told her that the dress is too little for her, she obviously didn't agree and wanted to wear it. Knowing her very well, I asked her to try it on and see for herself, if she would be comfortable in it. (I use this strategy quite often. good way for them to experiment n learn). After struggling to get into it, she gave up and rather sadly, remarked, "I used to wear it when I had turned 5. I am still 5 and that dress doesn't fit me Anymore." 
"Coz, beta, you are growing."
"Why?"
"Coz we grow each day." 
Why?
"Coz that's how it is.  Every day either we grow or our hair or our nails..."
Picking on it, she started adding, "even our hands, our feet, our fingers."
"Yep. You got it. Now let's get ready for school.  Mommy picked out a dress for you that still fits you."
"Why? Why does is still fit me? I am not tall enough not to fit in that dress yet?"
Yes.
"One day, I will grow up and even this dress will be small for me?"
"Yes."
Getting all teary-eyed, she says, " But I do not want to grow. When I grow, I will have to go away from you. I will not get anymore huggies and kissies from you. I do not want to miss them!"
"Awww my baby. You do not have to grow up that soon. There's a long time to that. Besides, I will always give you hugs n kisses. You will never outgrow them, for sure! "
Seemingly pacified, she started getting dressed, when she again asked, " momma, do all of us grow each day?"
"Yes beta."
"Even the grown ups?"
"Even papa."
"Even you"
"Yes beta."
" So you grow tall like me each day too?"
"No beta. I don't"
"But the other day, I heard you telling papa that one dress didn't fit you anymore.. That it was too little for you..."
Momma, scratching her head, trying to remember, when she wud have assumed herself growing so tall that her dress wudn't fit.....
"Oh! I know. When you are a grown-up, you don't grow tall anymore. Isn't it?"
"Yes beta."
Decidedly, she adds, "you don't grow tall anymore. You grow fat."


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3 comments:

Mani said...

Oh my..dont know how to react on these.. Well best teaching lessons for moms whose kids will ask these questions in few years..

Ĝ ё ё ┼ ä said...

hats off ""you don't grow tall anymore. You grow fat."" :) :)

Chiniiz n Sugarz Mom.. Swati said...

;) believe me parenting itself is ever-learning process!

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